Sometimes I catch myself daydreaming about things I wish would just HAPPEN to me.
Like getting invited to awesome parties, receiving flowers unexpectedly, or chatting up a stranger and turning it into an incredible friendship.
Do you ever find yourself daydreaming too?
I was talking to my boyfriend last month about how I miss the holidays with my bigger family, where the room is filled with warmth, laughter, fun, good food, music, and everyone enjoying themselves.
He said to me, “Well we can create that here.”
Duh! Of course! How did I not think of that?!?!?!?!
I empower people to turn their desires into a reality on the regular, but ya know, sometimes we just need a reminder!
When we’re growing and changing and pushing to live a more complete + fulfilled life, there’s so much to focus on.
It’s easy to forget that we have the POWER to CREATE the experience we want to have! We are incredibly powerful capable magnificent beings!
I’m grateful my boyfriend was there to remind me of this (I think this whole life coaching + personal growth thing is rubbing off on him).
So I ended up planning my own holiday party. I made it happen! And it was one of my FAVORITE nights of the whole holiday season, where I was otherwise often moping around missing my dad.
I’m so glad I decided NOT to sit back and wait for life to happen to me. I created it. And it was exactly what I needed.
Now I’m passing this reminder on to you.
Whether you’re also daydreaming about a particular experience, a new job or promotion, or a new hobby or class you’d like to try, don’t just wait for it to fall into your lap.
Take one small step toward making this happen today! Pick a date for your party, update your resume, talk to your boss about internal opportunities, google meet ups for your hobby. Or you can even just TELL someone what you want to do, because trust me, that makes you so much more likely to do it.
You might be wondering though, “Is it really that easy?”
Maybe there’s something even bigger you’re aiming for, like a total career change, or moving across the country.
Sometimes it’s so overwhelming and hard to see how something like that can even be possible. How could you actually make it work?
When we feel overwhelmed, we’re demotivated before we’ve even begun. Getting started is often the hardest step, right?
If that’s how you’re feeling, that’s perfectly OKAY! But don’t let yourself stay there.
I’m gifting FREE one-hour clarity coaching sessions for the month of January to help you:
– get clear on what you want to create in your life in this new year
– uncover what’s getting in your way (like telling yourself this is crazy and there’s no way it can work)
– build your confidence and courage to start moving toward your goals so you leave the session knowing EXACTLY what to do next
These clarity sessions are regularly $65 but I’m offering them for FREE when you book your session in January.
This is for you ONLY if you’re ready to be committed to yourself and your goals. It’s okay if you’re completely clueless about how it will actually pan out, but you have to be willing to open up to the possibility that it can. And you have to be willing to make the commitment.
So commit to one hour of your time, and we can explore the possibilities together.
It’s up to you to create what you want.
But having support, accountability, and a non-judgmental space to be yourself helps too!
They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it certainly takes a village to raise an adult too. I wouldn’t be where I am now without all the support I’ve received from my friends, family, coaches, therapist, colleagues, community, and so on.
The stronger your support system, the higher you’ll soar.
If you’re ready to accept the support and to commit to making it happen, click here to book your session now.
Jessica Juliano: Self-Worth Advocate + Author 